Curry Zawa Kaoru's Creative Counseling - When you're at odds with the canon, accept that you just don't get it and let it slide.
I disagree with the canon
Actually, I'm not even sure if the examples I just gave you are what young folks are jamming to these days...
Don't say "I don't like it", say "I don't get it".
However, many people work through such discomfort and continue to stan the same character for decades.
If you're in it for the long haul, like those time thieves who keep complaining about their spouses over twelve drinks but refuse to divorce them, try focusing on what you do like about your best boy rather than what you don't.
Now, I know it's hard to ignore when your best boy is wearing some dorky sunglasses right in your face. You can't help but think, "Can't you take those off?"
So, let's change the way we talk about how we feel about our favorite character.
Instead of being negative and saying things like, "Something's wrong with my best boy right now," or "I don't like his words and actions," let's flip the script and say, "I just don't get it."
Saying you don't get it is neither a crime nor a negative statement. It doesn't mean you're rejecting your favorite character, the canon, or the people who love him as much as you do. And of course, you're not to blame for not understanding their recent antics.
It's like humanities folks not diving into quantum physicsーonce you accept that there are some things you just don't get, you'll find yourself spending less time thinking about them.
And sometimes it's best to keep our mouths shut about things we don't understand. You may even discover that you no longer feel the need to comment on every minor detail about your favorite character that you don't understand.
If you're in it for the long haul, just let it slide
However, since it's painful not to think or talk about your favorite character, why not take a moment to reflect on the things you love about them, which just so happens to be your area of expertise, and express it in your creative works?
Instead of saying "The canon interpretation of my best boy is totally off from Chapter 3!" why not shift your focus to the things you love, like how their clothes straight-up tore up into a million pieces in Chapter 2 Episode 3?
Even in real-life relationships, there comes a time when the honeymoon phase is over. We start noticing changes and unexpected sides of the other person, and before you know it, we're like, "Something's off about this dude, am I right?" Then, discomfort takes center stage, causing the things we once loved to fade into the background.
So, how do we overcome this challenge? Well, we could have some open and honest communication about our feelings and ask for improvements, but short of pulling a Misery and locking up the production team until they write your favorite character the way you want them to, you're not likely to get what you want. (Do not do this.)
Perhaps the best approach is to just embrace those aspects as well. In reality, when it comes to dealing with the aspects of a person that we struggle to accept, we often find ourselves either throwing in the towel or pretending not to notice. And let's face it, years fly by in the blink of an eye, and eventually, someone bites the dust. However, when you say things like, "I couldn't stand their habit of farting naked, but overall, I still have the hots for them," that means you're in a solid relationship.
When you come across a part of your best boy that you're not particularly fond of, you've got two options: you can brush it off without fully embracing or rejecting it, or you can counterbalance it with a positive aspect, like his angelic face. If your total emotional accounting stays in the positive, then you're all good.
People who love to live in their imaginations tend to be committed to sticking with their favorite character until the end, but it's not sustainable to be scaling walls every step of the way.
If you're in it for the long haul, you need to learn the art of letting it slide.
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About a year ago, I got hooked on a certain mobile game and have been writing fan fiction in that niche ever since.
However, reading the main story and events, I started feeling a sense of discomfort with my favorite character's words and actions. You guessed it: it's a classic case of being at odds with the canon.
Of course, the game's world keeps moving forward, and the story changes as it goes along. It's natural for things to evolve.
But lately, my favorite character has been getting way too close for comfort, and he's been saying things that seem out-of-character. I often think, "Man, I miss his tsundere days," and find myself not enjoying my interactions with him. These thoughts have been getting stronger every day, and it's been affecting my creativity.
I'm even finding it hard to enjoy the official story anymore.
I want to support my best boy for life and continue creating. I want him to be happy, or rather, I want to make him happy. This has been my driving force from the start, and I want to keep on like this for a long time. But the fact that I don't agree with what's canon is really giving me a headache.
How can I make the most out of this situation and keep my drive?